Honoring Marla Richmond, a true mompreneur and pioneer in health and fitness

After meeting with an old high school classmate, she said to me, I had to look you up and when I saw your face, I was like, oh I remember her, she was so nice. It made me feel good. Recently, I was invited to sit on a committee for a medical based fitness organization. I have sat on quite a few committees, but this particular one I was privledged to be asked and be involved. It was for the Marla Richmond M.S. Memorial Education Award‏. I then found myself asking, How Do You Want To Be Remembered in Life?

I was on a different committee at the time in the fall of 2009. It was to interview candidates for the Board of Directors. There were two openings. I was slated to interview two candidates, one just happened to be a local attorney. Through email, we made arrangements to speak on the phone for the interview. Evenings worked well for me so my husband could put my daughter to sleep. I was expecting my second child. The candidate and I had a great conversation and why he should be on the Board of Directors. After some time, he spoke about his wife, her involvement with the organization, her influence and passion in the fitness industry. Through our conversation, we learned his wife and I graduated with our master’s from the same institution. After we were done, Marla wanted to speak with me.

An inspiration, Marla was a true mompreneur and a pioneer in health and fitness

We had the same professors and talked about them. She walked down memory lane with me when her children were little, while she was working on her degree and writing her fitness education book that would set her up for international travels in teaching fitness from an academic standpoint. She owned her own personal training company and trained primarily women, my passion exactly. We laughed and she was so inspiring to me. I mean, to write a book with small kids, travel internationally and start your own business while raising two kids, it was amazing to me (and all before social media existed, she did it all on her own). We exchanged email addresses and exchanged a few brief emails.

It was a fun hour for me when we spoke. She was engaging, outgoing and high energy. Shortly after we spoke, we were to meet up for lunch, however, her son was diagnosed with cancer and she needed to be there for him. I told her it was where she needed to be and offered any help I could give and ended it “take care of yourself too.” As a mom, I often find we take ourselves and our health for granted, so it served as a reminder that we too need to be cared for. It was the last time I heard from her. I later learned she was not feeling quite well and her son’s doctor decided to check her out as well. They discovered Stage IV Lung Cancer. From someone who never smoked and exercised until the day she passed, with oxygen tanks attached and all, it was a quick 9-weeks for her. I am saddened we never had the opportunity to meet. I know she would have been on my Personal Board of Directors. Her husband stated to me that it would have been a memorable lunch. I can only imagine since our conversation was memorable!

When invited to be a part of this committee in creating an award to honor a woman who was a true pioneer in medical based fitness, women’s health, and I am saying this, an original mompreneur, When I was reached out and asked to be a part of this, I was like, *turns head over both shoulders* who me? I barely knew her. I missed the conference call (mothering duties), but the criteria for the award was well, too stiff. And she was not. But from what I knew was this and stated this to the head chair: “Was there any discussions about how the nominee displayed acts of encouragement, volunteering to help build a center that was destroyed by the hurricanes (for example) or volunteering in a community who has no access to fitness or health, but devoting their time to bringing awareness. Or to help engage a community into fitness, health and wellness? I am learning it is not about the number of articles published or the awards one has under their belts, it is about how one gives back to a community, to their peers and to the world. It doesn’t have to be the MFA community, but a community in greater need than our own. I say this because from the little I knew of Marla, she was there for others in greater needs than her own and it showed until the day she passed. Her willingness to be there for others, even when she was down and out speaks volumes. The award should be reflective of the person Marla was, not only for her accomplishments, but how she lived her life. That is how we want to be remembered on Earth and how MFA is choosing to remember and honor her.”

This criteria was added for the award was “Describe how you have displayed acts of encouragement, volunteered to improve access and awareness to fitness or health and/or to engaged your community in fitness, health and wellness.” Now the award was complete.

It comes down to this in life. Our actions, our words, to give our time in such a way that leaves an impression on others, our ability to give back, be a leader, to be an example, whether for your children or your peers, have compassion, gratitude, loyalty, have a positive outlook and to live a life that truly gives us and others life is a life well lived. And that my friends is what makes others remember us when we are called to go Home.

Marla Richmond wrote The Physiology Storybook: The Owner’s Manual for the Human Body in which is used for medical students to help them better understand exercise physiology.

An exerpt from Marla’s book:

Wellness is a gift you have
A lifetime to open.
Climb and run hard
But take the time to rest and reflect!
Nourish your body from the foods from the Earth.
Stretch your mind–question and discover.
Feed your spirit with the gift of
And the joy of laughter!
Celebrate your humaness!
Ever changing, ever growing.
Imperfect and beautifully sculpted,
By life’s challenges and mistakes.
Take them, Make them.
There is no pill, nor man-made Hereplan,
Than can match the magic with which,
You were created.
Good health is an irreplaceable gift.
Make the time to open it and look inside.
Treasure it!
For much of the rest is an illusion.

-Marla Richmond, 2001

This is an Afterforward written by her husband:
In Memory of Marla Richmond

My Dailey Method Bucktown Wrap-Up

I finally wrapped up my free month to the Dailey Method Bucktown last week. They kindly gave me an extension for 10 days in August since I was out for a good two weeks for vacation and my daughter’s Summer Olympic’s Birthday Party. Overall, I like it, or should say, addicted to loving it! There are pros and cons in which I am going to discuss. But what were my results? I didn’t lose a pound, but I measured myself on July 1 and again on August 8. I lost a half inch in my chest and hips and one inch in my waist. So all of you ladies who focus on that scale, you need to look at those inches. Yes, my clothes are fitting better and people have asked me what have I been doing. Just a combo of healthy eating and Dailey Method workouts.

1. What I did learn is that I have become a stronger runner. I can run the hills in the Indiana Dunes with ease (ok most hills, some are just way too steep still), but wow, I felt so awesome to run the hills I had to stop halfway and walk.

2. My low back pain is gone and my IT Bands feel better. (and don’t have to stretch in between vacuuming)

3. I can squat down and pick up my son with ease (thanks to all those crazy high heeled and deep V squatting, read Oh My Thigh’s and Tri’s).

4. My husband says my legs are looking stronger again. (Thanks honey, now I walk around thinking I have Olympic legs like Gabby Douglas).

5. My posture has improved again. I prided myself in having a good upright posture (pre-breastfeeding era).

6. It has given me the confidence to teach group fitness classes again and recently had to “audition” to teach classes at a local health club (last time I “auditioned” was 1999..). I really do love and miss teaching. I even got a few new moves and yes the idea of becoming a Dailey Method Instructor has crossed my mind.

Bar stretching with squared hips allowed my IT Bands to open up and release the pressure from my knees

I have also under-estimated the understanding of mind/body exercise until recently. After going experiencing some emotional stress, I went to a class last Monday, sweating and shaking beyond belief. Not only has my capacity to fully understand each move and deepening my practice, but when you are experiencing some sort of emotional stress, it does weaken your practice as well. I struggled with many of the moves last week due to some of the emotional stress I was dealing with and internalizing (yes, I know not healthy). I had to scale it down a bit, but I walked away more sore than I had in the first week of doing the workouts.

About the instructors:
Tami: There is a love/hate relationship, she is funny, witty and doesn’t like when you make faces. Overall, her morning classes are full. It will be a while before I can take a Tues morning class. It gets out too late for me to get my daughter to school on time.
Jenny: She’s tough and means business. She is easing into her morning straight arm planks (thank you) but she is conscious of helping others understanding each move by correcting your form. She has corrected my hips plenty of times and my IT bands are thanking her.
Ashlee: Super cute and bubbly, she has a nonchalant attitude while teaching. She likes doing a lot of legs, at least in my experience and I like doing legs…a lot.
Natalia: I took her Principles class once and used their childcare. This was a great class for me to take at the time since my body was fatigued from doing the workouts every day during a two week spurt in July. It was also refreshing to hear old school music from the 80′s and 90′s. I was getting mentally bored with some of the music.
Ryan: Again, took his class once, but it was awesome to take a class from a guy. He needs to be in the morning rotation. :)
Erin: Dailey Deeper on Fridays rocked, but yeah, this girl’s lower abs, you can tell are rock solid stable, a little jealous, but completely motivates me to push myself beyond the point of when I think “I can’t” I am just competitive that way.

My only issue is that I think there should be a free pass once a month to late cancel or no-show. I had a bad night with my son, which I overslept and clearly needed that rest. They do deduct it from the end of your month, so it ends a day sooner. Or you can buy late passes, but I just can’t see ever doing that. And sometimes sleep just wins in my book.

For me, it is a bit of a hike and I love working out in the mornings as I don’t want to pay for childcare. It takes me a lot longer to get back home than it does to get there, overall I am spending 25-minutes total to travel back and forth verses the 5-minute walk I am use too. Those 25-minutes is a lot of time, especially when you have to get kids ready in the morning for school. I will be taking the 5:30 morning classes when I can.

I do plan on going back and buying a 10 class pass so I have the option to go when I can. My goal is to go at least once a week, ideally twice per week.

I do recommend this workout. It is tough, challenging even for someone like myself who likes bootcamp style programs, I think this is a gentler, kinder way to work the entire body out.

Dailey Method Week 2: Oh My Thigh’s and Tri’s!

I completed week two of the Dailey Method workout. I went six out of the seven days last week and let’s just say my thighs and tri’s have been talking to me all week, but let me just break it down for you.

I unexpectedly had the chance to go on Sunday and it was a male instructor. It is always refreshing to have a male teach a class. I have also learned early in my own group fitness teaching career, women tend to like the male instructors more. He was soft-spoken, refreshing and not harsh by any means. He had a great way of explaining the movements and since the class was a smaller size, he got to go around more to work on form with everyone. For me, this is an important quality in an instructor, to not workout to teach, but to teach to workout. (That came from an old Australian professor I had as an undergrad). We did a lot of outer thigh work and I like that, a lot.

It’s Monday morning, 5:30am, first class of the day. I wake up early so I can walk quietly down the stairs so the kids can sleep. (Moms you know how it is). I walk in ready to go, we begin our warm-up, then BAM, right into straight arm planks. I am thinking to myself, but it is only 5:35am…really? This instructor means business. And this is how I feel:

But something happened during one of the moves while in C-curve. I strained my neck so much that I could not move or raise my arms all the way up for the rest of the day. I was baffled to what I did to do that. I get my answer the next day in Tami’s class, which rocked. She was really stroking my ego, but I loved all the bar exercises that day.

What I learned is the instructor from Monday’s cuing was off because while in the same position, Tami said the cue that I missed and that was to simply keep my sliding my shoulder blades into the floor. The strain went away for a bit, but was still there. Ugh and I had to take another class that night with the founder of W8Fit (I’ll save that for another post). Knowing I had this Tues evening class to take, I was happy to sleep in on Wednesday.

I went and saw my chiropractor on Wednesday. She did one simple test and found I locked my clavicle. She said what I did was I failed to exhale at the exertion, it locked my clavicle causing the diaphragm to be restrained. Ah I think to myself. You see as she explained, the clavicle slides back and forth when we move, when you are holding your breath during the contraction and not in the correct position (as I was in the c-curve) it will shift and it caused me not to be able to move my arms or my body completely. An adjustment here, pressure there I walk out feeling like my old self. Gosh, I love my chiropractor (been seeing her since 2004). She also tells me that my hip flexibility has gotten way better and that is because my low back is feeling fantastic. All of the stretching I am missing is making feel just great and my posture is back to being upright most of the time. In fact, one of my chiropractor’s patients walks in and said, “Wow, you have nice posture.” :)

I am back Thursday morning and let me just tell you, my thighs and tri’s have had enough. I see the same instructor as I had Monday morning and was nervous. I think to myself if I have to do all those pulsing tricep moves, deep V squats and wear my “6 inch heels” I will surely cry. Ok, well I didn’t but scaled back a bit and listened to my body and listened more attentively.

Friday I tried the Dailey Deeper for the first time. Upbeat instructor, I was not sure what to expect, but all I kept thinking was I think I may regret this, just the name alone makes my tri’s and thighs want to walk out the door. Hello ball squeezes in my “6 inch heels” how are you today? But I remove the thoughts from my head and found myself feeling stronger and more confident until the end when the instructor went to demo a move…she was sitting with her legs in front and proceeded to lift both of her legs up and pulsed them up and down. I’ll be honest with the exact thought that went though my head…”she obviously hasn’t had a baby or a c-section before, this is nuts!” And we were to do this move while stabilizing our hands above our heads gripping the bar. Mind over matter, I take a stab at it, surprised at what I can do with my war wounds, she calls out, “Nice job Jasmine, you got it!” Sweating and trembling I did something that I have not been able to do in years and I walk out taller and more proud.

I snuck in my final class of the week at 7am on Saturday, thinking I am so glad to take Sunday off, because I need it.

While one may not be seeing any physical changes, I can surely feel them. The one thing I do know is I have really great awareness of my body internally and how to re-align my body physically. What I like most about this class compared to a Bar Method class I took 6 months postpartum is their emphasis in working in neutral spine. As a trainer and group fitness person, this what I know best and feel comfortable doing. I also like their gentle approach because this form of exercise is not meant to be a “bootcamp” but it goes in line with their philosophies.

We NEED to be exercising in neutral spine because we are so out of sorts from prolonged sitting, improper lifting and the everyday movements we have created for our bodies through time, our bodies have created this improper alignment that is causing all kinds of issues. When the body is in proper alignment, organs function better, digestion is improved, low back pain goes away, we sleep better and we just feel better. The true relief for me is my low back, even though I was doing “therapy” type of exercises on my own, the deep stretching is what is really helping me. I am truly enjoying these workouts. I’ll be honest, I am missing my running too.

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I’m trying out the Dailey Method for 30-days.

After being contacted by 2 Moms Media to give Dailey Method a 30-day try, I was secretly happy for a couple of reasons:

1. I canceled my membership at Fitness Formula Clubs for a few reasons and it ended on June 30
2. I have been wanting to give this workout a try, but have not been sold on the fact that it can transform your body. Though a neighborhood friend and mom of two, claims it reshaped hers.
3. I need to do something else in my workouts. I love intense workouts that make me sweat and hate the exercises so much that I go back for more. This seems like the ideal way of getting some intensity and deep, inner strengthening.
4. I have neglected my core and have babied it for too long. Ok, I haven’t completely forgotten to work my core, I love doing my abs on the ball and BOSU, but I have not done any style of Pilates since before I became pregnant with my daughter, back in 2006…mostly because, well I know how strong I was back then (I taught some kick a$$ abs classes back in my day) but, I didn’t want someone else to teach me to be blunt honest.

The Dailey Method as I best understand it is a fusion of pilates, yoga and ballet. Here is a quick video that explains it more thoroughly:

The Dailey Method

Many know me for my nutrition detective skills, but I am a group fitness instructor and personal trainer with an undergrad degree in Exercise Science. This is how I started out on my weight loss journey back in college. So this form of exercise intrigues me to evaluate it from a personal and physiological perspective.

I started on Monday, July 2, um yeah, I was in for a rude awakening…I gave myself some slack not knowing what to expect I tried hard to keep up with the class (yes, even I teach my participants that it is ok to not keep up…I have an internal competitive side). The instructor was peppy and sweet. We had a nice conversation after the class about my “core” and I already felt it.

I went again the next day and despite my husband and I being kid-free on Monday night and having some spirits when going out to dinner…I was a little groggy going in, but came out feeling taller. Tami, the owner and mother of two was teaching the class. Super strong, sleek, she taught some ballet bar moves that helps tone the sides of your bottom and I liked the challenge. It brought me back to my dancing days. I was not able to last as long as I did the day before, I knew my limits and still had a nice workout.

I am bummed that I missed the rest of the week as we were going out of town, but plan on going almost every day until July 24th when we leave to go out of town again. I’ll get a total of three weeks, so we’ll see what happens in those days. Until then…

I am doing The Gunnar Challenge for 8-weeks

I filled out a survey to do The Gunnar Challenge and was selected to give it a try for 8-weeks. Now typically I hate following “programs” because I do not believe one size is a fit all. I did the Jillian Michael’s program though a Klout Perk I had earned and I thought the workouts were fantastic, but the nutrition part is not for me. And I did not finish following through each and every workout. (lack of sleep from my son, dealing with life sometimes gets in the way of my fitness, I am just like you!) Since I follow a complicated diet (gluten, soy, dairy, corn free including no oats, buckwheat or red meats), The Gunnar Challenge will be the same way. I will have to modify the diet to my needs. So this time, I am having you hold me accountable as a way to review this program in great detail. I will analyze it from a both fitness and nutrition perspective. It is nice to have a program to use when you do not have access to a gym, cannot afford a trainer and be a part of an interactive community through Facebook and Twitter.

Registration was easy. Asked for my goals, current weight/height, measurements which were optional. I opted in to enter my weight weekly and checked off that I will work out at least 4 days per week. My real goal is 5 days per week (and looking ahead, it has me scheduled for 6?…we’ll see), but one of those days will be used to run to prepare for the Dirty Girl Mud Run I am doing on June 30.

So that is it. Each Monday I will post for you my experience with using the Feel Great in 8 Gunnar Challenge and I will do some before and after pics…yikes I have never done that before.

However, you can join me today! Anyone who signs up today will get $30 off their registration, that is pretty cool! Click here to register. No worries, you did not miss anything for a workout, today is a rest day. :)

Feel Great in 8 Gunnar Challenge

When is the last time you had a complete check up?

It is the end of Women’s Health Week and I did not want the week to go by without doing this important post. Many women seeing their OB/GYN for their yearly pap smear check up. While this is important for seeking abnormal cell growth, when is the last time you had your blood drawn for a complete check up? And I am not talking the good ole cholesterol and fasting glucose test. Wait, you are not sure? Here is what you need to ask for:

Getting a full check up can save your life in the future

The Chemistry and Complete Blood Count
Cholesterol Panel: Total, HDL, LDL, Triglycerides
C-Reactive Protein Test: Inflammation in the body and determines risk for developing Coronary Artery Disease
Hemoglobin A1C: Measurement of average blood sugar over past 3 months, determines your risk for Type 2 Diabetes
Basic Metabolic Panel: Kidney and Electrolyte tests
Thyroid Testing: T3, T4, TSH, Thyroid Peroxidase and Anti Thyroglobulin Antibody. Many doctors will only test the first three, however, the other two can give a better description in case you are having any symptoms of undo fatigue, difficulty losing weight, rapid weight gain or losing weight too fast.
Vitamin D3: Vitamin D deficiency is more common than once thought. Over 30,000 studies have been published regarding how vitamin D can improve health outcomes including: Preeclampsia, Autism, Cancer, Colds/Flu, Obesity, Losing Weight, etc.
Vitamin B12: an important test if you are a woman of child bearing age, gluten-free, vegan or raw vegan and if you are feeling extremely fatigue. Known as the energy vitamin, vitamin B12 helps to bind to folic acid in the body. If you are deficient, it becomes more difficult for folic acid to absorb into the body. Read Six Common Misdiagnosis: Vitamin B12 Deficiency
Magnesium: Serves for over 30,000 different enzyme functions in the body, a magnesium deficiency can lead to a whole host of health problems. Research has found that approximately 80% of us are deficient and don’t know it. Drinking coffee can deplete our magnesium levels if not replace properly through diet. Some magnesium rich foods are: Raw nuts and seeds, black beans, raw broccoli, oysters, halibut, spinach just to name a few.

I am thankful my OB/GYN ordered many of these tests for myself. She was being proactive in my health and wellbeing. Many OB/GYNs will not take this extra step. I actually learned something about myself and while she said she is not worried, but it is good to know. She said given my healthy eating and lifestyle, sometimes numbers are just numbers.

If you do not know any of your numbers, grab your phone and call for a check up. Well…what are you waiting for?